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writes:Hi Cupid,I've been going out with my philippine gf for 6 months now and we have lots of great time together. lemme introduce herself first. as i did before in my previous post, i will do it again here.she have a kid in philippine when she was 17. she came to my country 7 years ago and now she's 24. she job is a bar girl and she met a guy before me and got 2 kids here already. he abondone her last year and i met her in my local pub and start dating since then.the relation was not easy but we got over and i was trying my best to accept her pass which i did. but there are many indecent happen in between which makes me start feeling paranoid like one i bum into the door and she and her male agent stand up together near the computer chair and both looks nervous, she claim that there was nothing so i trust her in the end. again one day i bum into the door again in the night carrying her daughter to buy ciggie and she and her 2 female fren was webcaming with 2 pinoy guy and they all got a big shock and her hand was near her breast, i imagine she was flashing on the webcam but she deny it. so i believe.last month, i bought her ticket and gave her some pocket money to visit her hometown as she was away for 7 years, i was suppose to follow her but my working schedule was full so she went alone. it was a 2 weeks trip, the first week was ok. we talk on phone and sms everyday and then she slowly losing touch with me, did not pick up my call, nor reply my sms. even if she did it was just a short talk and she promise me to sms me when she's back home safe but she didn't do. i was upset and thought that she got really exited and so i let it be.few days after she came back to my country, we was sleeping and her philippine roaming number keep receiving msg and i when i check on it it was all from some pino number telling her how much he miss her and wanted to see her in tagalog. i got so pissed off and wake her up and she told me dun bother. tat guy is just a worthless junkie cum her childhood friend which is trying his luck. and she promise me she never entertain him. so i believe again... but this time couldn't stop suspecting, it's not within my knowledge that u met a guy which has been lose touch for almost a decade will ever be that agresive to send love messages in the midnight. so i start my search and spy ....i turned on her ym archive 3 days ago... and finally found something now... the conversation is in tagalog, she start the conversion first by saying "hi... baby... muah" then there are details. with her saying "i love u, i miss u, i miss ur lips and kiss" immediately i got freak out and heart broken, i woke her up and give her to chance to be honest with me. she keep denying it, ask me what do i think she did. i told her sorry i break your privacy and watch ur chat history but i had to because i have a valid suspecting case. she still deny it, says that it was nothing, they met each other back ni philippine, he was her bf when she was 14, they kiss alot during those days and just trying to bring back some memorries together.i don't believe her anymore this time, and she trying to push the ball back to me by saying things like "is up to you, you can think or imagine what have i done there and you have left me no room for explaination" i told her there was nothing to explain anymore as the prove is damn valid now. i was so painful and all i don't even know what is sad anymore, i lost hope and trust in her, so i told her calmly. "thanks for the good memories for the pass 6 months, i have no regret being with you"she then silent, i went to bed. 5 minutes later she trying to hug me and break into tears and keep saynig sorry it was her mistake, she dunwan to lose me, she wan to live with me forever.i am a very jealous type, loyal bf. i dun even allow my self to stair or admire other gals coz i love her so much. have this in return is really painful. what should i do? wat will u do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 December 2009):
You need to get the hell away from this girl now. Dump her immediately. She's using you for money.
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reader, corn101 +, writes (29 December 2009):
corn101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok... i've found more out now. she is actually secretly sending money and sending household stuffs (cash advance from her agent) to tat guy to support his son too. there's no doubt that she have already slept with him during that 2 weeks or else things will not get so passionate. (is a confirm news from her agent)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): ok... i've found more out now. she is actually secretly sending money and sending household stuffs (cash advance from her agent) to tat guy to support his son too. there's no doubt that she have already slept with him during that 2 weeks or else things will not get so passionate. (is a confirm news from her agent)
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (29 December 2009):
 Get out of the situation. It isn't going to get better - just more pain.
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