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*eadEyeDick
writes:So what does it mean, when a girl says she wants to feel desired during sex? I guess im just stupid, but if im doing her, obviously i desire her? are there any tips, on making her feel desired? Reply to this Question
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (29 December 2009):
DeadEyeDick is verified as being by the original poster of the question No I guess I came off wrong because she's now my ex, no I was very very in love with her, when we went through a bad time, she stopped letting me do pretty much anything but penatration, we tried to work things out, but I was very reserved and cautious, as I wasnt comfortable doing anything to her, I desired her very much, I wanted her very much, but I wasnt sure how I show it? does that make sense?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): It means that she feels you may be horny but not for her in particular. So she wants to feel special and know that you desire HER, not just another female body. What you noticed about her that turned you on... could be from her smell to her toes, or the fact that she desired you, anything.
You know, how we are told all the time, men just want sex, it has nothing to do with us... So occasionally from the man we love or are sleeping with it is good to hear what specifically turns him on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): she doesn't want to feel like a metaphorical toilet. Where you dump biological matter, flush and leave.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 December 2009):
 Yes, it has to do with being a loving and caring man all the time, rather than just "doing her." For one thing, put her satisfaction ahead of your own, then any woman will probably love you.
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