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writes:I've been dating my girlfriend for two years. But I'm attracted to her friend and I feel like going out with her friend to share cozy moments. I don't want to hurt my gf but at the same time I want to spend time with her friend. Help!! What should I do Reply to this Question
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reader, Pooki__11  +, writes (14 March 2013):
Your horrible. Leave your gf coz she deserves someone better. You don't get cozy moments with her friend if your in a relationship. How would you feel if she was craving cozy moments with your best mate. It would embarrass and humiliate you.
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 If you like her friend then clearly you don't like your girlfriend enough to obtain that relationship. Let her go let her find someone who is decent and will not want to go off wit her friends even though she's been with you for 2 years.
I bet if it was the other way around and she wanted 'cosy' time with one of your friends you'd kick off!
Do her a favour and get out of her life.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 Ask your girlfriend's permission to spend cozy moments with her friend.
IF she says yes... then you can do so
IF she says no... well then you can't.
You really can't have your cake and eat it too and be a moral ethical kind person.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 March 2013):
 Well.... you are certainly putting matters in-place so that your G/F can learn BOTH at the SAME TIME: ... that YOU are an untrustworthy DOG.... AND that her "friend" is no "friend" indeed..... and that the two of you lying dogs deserve one-another....
Thank goodness, you and slut-"friend" are willing to do this in-concert, so that your "girlfriend" will not be kept waiting to learn that NEITHER of you deserves her trust.... and SHE can put distance between her and BOTH OF YOU.... and can get on with her life.. with NEITHER OF YOU in it....
I won't offer you "Good luck"... because people like you don't deserve that offering....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013): You want permission to hurt your gf by cheating on her and not only that - but a double betrayal by cheating on your gf with her friend.
You disgust me!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 March 2013):
 You choose either to honor your girlfriend, or to succumb to bodily desires. Which is the wiser, kinder, nobler path?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 You wrote to the wrong site , OP. Call us a bunch of uptight, moralistic p...ks, but I doubt you'll find a lot of people willing to teach you or encourage you cheating. Maybe one or two as a joke, just to be witty, but..I am pretty sure you won't find much help.
Not that all of the Aunts or Uncles have NEVER cheated, NEVER made mistakes, I guess, it's a forum of regular people, not of saints. But we all like, I think, for that little that our advice can help, to advice people about how to make things better, not how to fuck up their lives and the lives of innocent third parties.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 March 2013):
You have two choices here:
Stop being selfish because you'll probably lose your girlfriend.
Or, be honest with yourself, that you don't want to be monogamous, and tell your girlfriend that you'd like to have an open relationship.
Anything else would be dishonest, but there is no way to guarantee that you won't hurt your girlfriend's feelings unless you do the first option.
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