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writes: Have you ever got mean thoughts about a guy you like ..say you got a thought of him being a skank or wondering if he was? I feel like i don't deserve him because i keep having thoughts! I feel like i have to tell him but why?! ah please help! Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): We are only human and we all get these thoughts from time to time. I am getting married in April and my bloke forgets to tell me stuff, which really annoys me, but that is how he is and we are not all perfect. You are not alone, just so long as these thoughts don't take over 100% of your mind and time. Then the relationship is doomed because you will end up hating him.
Take care
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 March 2007):
Hi,
What do you mean by skank?. Do you mean dirty or bad habbits, or what?
Sorry, not sure about the meaning of this.
I think everyone has negative feelings about there partners sometimes, its natural isn't it. It's making sure that they dont take over the relationship that counts. If he is doing something that really gets to you, perhaps you should tell him. You may be able to sort something out, between you.
Best wishes to you X
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (23 March 2007):
Dear anonymous writer,
I think everyone has thoughts about that with the one they are with and love, its just thoughts that go through your head i am getting married in may and sometimes i have thoughts like that but then the go away and i know i dont mean it but he just agervates me when he does things like when he eats i hate it he makes these weird sounds and in my head im like shut up you dumbass but its just thoughts but like i said i think everyone has these thoughts
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