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*eldman
writes:my ex girlfriend broke up with me on feb 3 and i cant get her out of my head. is this normal. i wish i could talk to her but i dont know what to say or do.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Going through a similiar thing myself at the moment. You feel like you could of done more? Feel guilty for the times you are catch yourself not thinking of her? Can't get her face out of your head? Constantly hoping that phone will ring? Hang in there, everyone deals with things slightly differently, you may feel better sooner than you think. If you have a close family or friends use them. Take care of yourself..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): We have all been there and it hurts like hell. We think of something and we want to tell them about it. We see something and immediately we think of them. It is so normal. It will only get better with time and you are quite young so there will be lots of lovely people out there to meet. Things to do and see and the rest of your life ahead of you. Anyway, at your age you don't want to get tied in a serious relationship, live life!!!
Take care - there are better days ahead.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (21 March 2007):
 Dear weldman,
yes it is normal for you to still be thinking about this girl it hasnt been that long since you two have broke up....i or no one else can really tell you what to say to this girl because no one really knows the reason you two have broke up...just give her sometime befor you start talking to her and if you dont mind writting more reasons why this girl has broke up with you it would be more helpful!
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reader, JackBauer +, writes (21 March 2007):
 What was the main driving force for the 2 of you breaking up?? That could be the reason right there. I would suggest talking via e-mail or instant message at first, just to try and get a feel for things. Or if your up to it call her, there's nothing to lose.
The best thing to do is be yourself, which is why she liked you in the 1st place.
You can take an agressive stance about the reason why, by being upfront with her about everything, or beat around the bush. I prefer being upfront, since honesty is a key to a strong relationship. If she can't give you a straight up reason as to why she broke up with you. Then, it's not worth it move on.
Your young and there are many fish in the sea. Also, if you were together for a while I can see it having it's affects on your mind. But as soon as you find someone else, those affects usually disappear within a week or 2.
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