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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex broke up some months ago, she decided that it wasnt working, but i thought we could try it one more time, we went out 3 times. We were really in love with each other, matter of fact we were engaged, but obviously that didnt work. We are the best of friends now, i see her everyday, and we talk to eachother on the phone everyday for hours, and we even hang out on the weekends, my mom loves her to death and her mom feels the same about me, but time and time again it never fails, we end up sleeping with each other. She says that she doesnt want me anymore, and i say the same, but deep down inside i still want her. Just this past valentines day we brought eachother gifts, and i bought her something for her birthday, and my birthday is coming up this week and shes buying me something. Do you think we will ever get back into another relationship, or do you think we will remain really close friends?
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reader, Midge  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 You both seem really confused about what you want.
If its meant to be, then you should tell her how you feel. Be honest!! If she says the same back, well bingo!! If she knocks you back, then consider it a bad move and move on with life, she's just a friend.
Its never easy when you have a friend thats a lover thats a friend. Draw a clear line and either tell her how you feel and deal with the consequences or alternatively never know how she feels and she may think the same, so not want to bring it up. If you both dont let each other know how you really feel, you'll never get together.
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