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*ubbloo24
writes:All my female friends are annoyed at me becoz if I talk to their boyfriends ( who are close mates of mine) they automatically think I'm trying to take them off her.I've been cheated on loads of times and I would never dream of putting them into this position.My sister used to have this problem. She says it's coz I'm pretty and the girls get jealous easily becoz of this.I don't think I'm that attractive. I'm upset because I generally get on better with boys and I can't believe they'd think this of me.What should I do?
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reader, bubbloo24 +, writes (20 May 2007):
bubbloo24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey.
Thank you for all the help!
I spoke to my mates about it and they seem to understand more about the fact that I spend more time with lads than girls and it's just who I am.
I think they now know that I'm not after any of their lads! I'll have them know that I love the single life :)
Anywhoo, thank you again!
Bubbloo24 x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): hi hunny
yeah i agree with your sister it does sound like your friends are jealous of you. it also sounds like your friends are very insecure within their relationships so just asure them that you aren't trying to steal their bfs. just explain to them you happen to get on well with guys and that doesn't have to mean something else is involved. iv been there because iv had the same thing done to me i know its frustrating but telling my friends what i thought of their attitude at the time really helped me and now they understand. if your friends still don't understand then sorry hunny they really aren't worth it. good luck and let me know what happens xxx
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reader, loretta  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 hi there, just want u 2 no that ur not the only gal in the world that get on better wit lads then girls! i do to n this has caused me problems in the past to. all my best friends r lads n i used to hang bout wit them all the time!!! i used to b 1 ov the boys! i got accused ov all sorts by many people including my friends n at 1 point i got really low coz ov this! i got accused ov sleeping wit them all n trying to get them in bed! i find i av more fun on a night out wit da boys, then i do wit da girls. if they r sayin this then they av obviously got problems in ther relationships such as trust. as for accusing u,(ther friend) then they must av some inscurity in ther relationships! its not ur fault n u need to speak to them n explain why u get on wit lads better. maybe its coz uve known um 4 a long time or that maybe ur a lad girl! i just let them get over it n in time they av realised they was wrong! maybe u r prettier,i dnt no, they cud b jelous ov u but wateva it is it needs sorting out n u shud defo talk to them. i cnt say any more then that but the best ov luck n i wish u well x x x x keep me posted x
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reader, charlotte123 +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Well i know were your coming from with getting on better with boys u shud try sitting your friends down n explain how u feel about there aqusations and explain why u wouldn't dream of stealing them
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