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writes:I've been talking to this girl that I met online for more then 4 years now, and practically our relationship is maxed out. But she lives in a different state, and I've never met her. Yet we really really want to meet, we don't talk anymore because there's too much suspense about not seeing each other.I've turned down plenty girls within my years of knowing and liking this girl, even though I sort of have a thing for the girls that have liked me. My friends keep saying that I missed a perfect opportunity, yadayadayada, but I just know that this girl from the other state is perfect for me. Or, I know that as of now. But my feelings for other girls are there, while the girl from the other state, lingers in the back of my mind. I want to date other girls, but then again I don't, if that makes sense. I really do love this girl from the other state, it's just that I do think I'm missing out, and my friends keep pressuring me and saying that she's not worth the wait, and there's a very slim chance. It's really annoying, and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Okay, forget the fact that she could be a "pervert" or anything like that, because i'm 100% sure that she is not. End of discussion. And we don't want a relationship, it's just that our love for eachother is maxed out. I'm approximately 4 hours and 30 minutes away from her, (Thanks to Google Earth) and... yeah. more opinions please.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 You've got to meet this girl and get her out of her system. You can't get on with your real life while this "virtual girl" is always at the back of your mind.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (6 June 2008):
 well this is sorta a tough subject, how far away are you from her? is it one state over or acrossed country. are you willing to leave your friends and family behind to live with her, is she willing to do that for you. long distance relationships have a hard time of working, but if you or her made it short distance then wa la your a match made in heaven but if the distance cant change then your probably wasting your time.
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reader, Short timer +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Get a girl that you can meet and actually see. just be friends with the one online. realationships online are nothing but trouble because you will want to see them but you cant, they may not be who they say they are, and you will never know if they cheat on you and so on and so on. It would be better to meet a girl that lives in your area.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Yes, you should be dating girls in real life. You might think you love this girl you have been talking to but the truth is, you don't know her. What if you actually did meet her and she was NOTHING like you expected and all this time you have been saving yourself for her? You will have missed out on life and wasted your time, like your friends said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Hmm...i have had similar situations like this.Well theres a chance that this perfect girl may be a pervert or something.But anyway maby you could just date untill you know for a fact that your gonna meet pixelated juliet.You dont have too get into any serious relashionship.Just date.
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