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writes:i have lost my virginity recently, and i found it quite painful. Im going to have sex again soon, so i was wondering if my second time will hurt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): It will only hurt if you are not really wet down there. Chances are with how scared you are of the pain you wont be wet enough so go to the store and buy some lube and and that will make it a lot less pain full. Also if you are having sex for long amounts of time (if he can last more than 30 minutes) then lube is a good idea for that because if you start to dry down there you will be really sore for quite a few hours and may even find walking or wiping after peeing painful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Maybe a little honey, but if you expect the pain then it will only make it worse.
Please make sure you know what you're doing though. And keep safe, use a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): It was very painful for me on the next 3 to 4 times and really sore afterwards so we didn't try again. Three months later with a new BF and I felt really comfortable.
Take it slowly, and leave it for a while if you are not comfortable. My first didn't hang around simply because I wanted to stop for a while. An understanding BF really does help! Go for it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): It will probably still be painful, but not as painful. Make sure that your boyfriend kisses you the whole way through or nibbles you neck... That will distract youfrom the pain. It will soon get better.
Good Luck,
Emivia. x
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 It may still be a bit sore your first few times - I know it was for me. But it's not nearly as bad as the first time.
Just take your time, make sure he's considerate enough to get you nice and wet, and use a lot of lube. It stops being painful once you're good and used to it.
And of course, use condoms. It's just common sense, after all
Best of luck to you.
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