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My friend went out with him and said he was horrible. But then she asked if I'd like his number. Should I be insulted?

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Question - (12 February 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, *eapod writes:

My friend was hooked up with this guy and went on a date with him and it was horrible according to her. I sat and listened for hours as she told me everything horrible about it.

At the end of this she asked if i would like to have his number because she was getting tired of him texting her.

Should i be a bit insulted that she offered me her seconds. Am i over thinking this

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI met a guy many years ago... it did not click for me with him.... T have you met my friend D?

I was the matron of honor at their wedding nearly 20 years ago....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (12 February 2013):

Honeypie agony auntI would ask her (IF she brings it up again) why you would want his number if he is clearly that horrible.

I'm hoping she was joking. If not that is kind of cold of her to try and set you up with someone SHE deems a loser.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (12 February 2013):

person12345 agony auntAre you sure she wasn't kidding?

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2013):

fi_the_tree agony auntI don't think you should be insulted. They obviously don't click.

She may have had a horrible date with him, but is that necessarily all his fault??? Maybe she should take some blame as to why it was so bad.

Point is, IF you went out with him, you guys might get on a bit better. This could be a chance for your friend to see how shallow she is when it comes to guys. Maybe you should take his number.

It's up to you anyway, good luck :)

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A female reader, Kindpigeonette Japan +, writes (12 February 2013):

Maybe she was just pulling your leg or is trying to passively ask for a way out. Tell her to block his number. If she was serious though, you have every right to be upset. Clearly shows who SHE thinks is worth more.

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