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*annyD
writes:My friend is 14 she acts grown up. She told an 18 year old she was 17. Now the guy is calling her. She is afraid to tell him her real age. She said her mom knows but... What can I do to help her? Why does she act grown up? Reply to this Question
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reader, DannyD +, writes (28 March 2009):
DannyD is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey the guy had stop calling her we pranked him on the phone and he called her a #!%^&. so he got mad and stoped calling
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (23 March 2009):
Sometimes people lie to get an advantage.
Other times to cover up for a lack of something.
Girls mature quicker than boys anyhows so she might be making a compensation.
But, she is still a minor so she needs to be completely away from any opportunity where this guy could make the moves on her, else he'll feel so embarassed and rightfully angry when he finds out the truth.
Tell her not to let it go any further because she'll destroy the poor fella and do herself no good.
Sometimes the law turns a blind eye where the girl is slightly under and the guy slightly over but she's pushing the limit at 14 batting her eyes at an 18 yr. old.
So, split the difference.
1st. Wait until she is more closerer to 16.
Then, find someone also closerer.
Strictly speaking I should completely advice against any under age sex. But in the event that folks are gonna, then it is as well to not push the law too far.
Most probably she is edging closer to that time and an 18 yr. old is more likely to be able to give her what she wants than somebody closer to her age.
But try and encourage her to wait a little while longer and find someone closer to her own age and tell them ALL the truth...
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reader, HollyHeartbreak +, writes (23 March 2009):
 She maybe wanted to lie about her age because she wanted a more 'mature' relationship with an older guy and is afraid if she tells him her real age he won't take her seriously.
But just explain to your friend that she should tell him the truth and if he doesn't take to it well screw him there's plenty of other guys out there.
I hope you get it sorted out with her soon sweetie!
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