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writes:Why did she wear it?So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks she has really been staring at me. But, my question is why did she all of a sudden wear it esp. after saying she didn't have it?And should I say somethin to her about it, or should I just keep giving her her space and wait for her to say somethin to me.. but I don't want to wait too long because she might then completely give up.Ugh help!-Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): She's wearing your jacket to be cruel and to spite you, since the two of you are no longer friends- ask for it back and if she doesn't give it to you, send her parents a bill so she can pay you (or your parents) for it. Best of luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Next time you see "your" jacket make sure it is your jacket. Look for identification marks, stuff in pockets, that indicate it belongs to you. It could be an identical jacket that is hers. If it is your jacket ask her why she won't return it to you privately. Perhaps, she doesn't have a jacket of her own and can't afford a "new" one. Negotiate.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Just go up to her and tell her you want the jacket back. If she took it by mistake she's thoughtless and rude, and if she took it on purpose she's a thief. Either way, it's not hers so make it your business to get it back, even if you have to steal it back off her. I wish I had a buck for every item of clothing that "girlfriends" have taken from me over the years. Some women just have no class and they show it when they don't return borrowed items.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Talk to her about it, it is the only way, but if you really value your friendship, you won't stop being friends with her over a jacket, a lot of people just take their stuff back while visiting.
good luck
xx
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reader, Illithid +, writes (14 December 2009):
 It's possible that she didn't know she had the jacket until she recently found it in her house, possibly being in a closet since Spring. You say you haven't been friends in a long while, so maybe she feels it's easier to just keep the jacket then open up communication again.
If you want it back, talk to her. If you want HER back, talk to her. Otherwise, just walk away.
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