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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a question on behalf of a friend.She is 14 and last year she had a serious - I mean serious - love for a male actor (she is female btw). She often talked about wanting to bed him etc.However, now she has not mentioned a crush of any kind for the last 7 or 8 months, and shows no interest in love. She said to me the other day that she is scared that something is wrong with her and that she cannot fall in love with anyone. Please if anyone has had an experience like this and can help, please do.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Of course shes normal ive only ever truely fancied two girls in my whole life and im fine, People dont find "love" every 5 mins and then get over it and then find someone else.
Let her find her someone whenever it will be
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 She sounds like me... I don't get attacted to too many guys. It is "one in a million" for me. She is just picky. I used to hang out with this girl who ... every day... pointed out a guy who she thought was H-O-T! I couldn't figure out what was so hot about them. ha ha.
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (1 August 2008):
like everyone else said its normal. My sister is like that and she is 16. i actually wish i could be like that.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Yeah definately don't rush her. She'll come around. I (at 15) wasn't interested in anyone at my school and kinda wondered the same thing. I went to a party, not to find someone, just to have fun, and i found a perfect girl for me. It could be as quick as that for her, or she might have been crushed by some other boy and is having trust issues and doesn't want to get hurt.
In any case she'll come around, and i hope everything will work out for you and her.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 At 14 I didn't fancy anybody, was too busy playing Pokemon cards. At that age, I thought girls were useless.
Now ... well ... I don't play Pokemon cards
(Kidding of course ;)
Give her time, it will come :)
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (1 August 2008):
There is nothing wrong with your friend. I had my friends asking me the same question about me.
I find i am happy being single and not have this need to be with someone because when the right person comes along I will fall in love with them.
I was single for 2 years witht he occassional date which i never seemed to get that flutter from and was starting to wonder if i would get that flutter again but i am now in a very happy loving relationship because when the right person comes along you cant help but get swept off your feet.
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reader, girlhottie +, writes (1 August 2008):
of course not shes just not seen anyone worth it. In time she'll find Mr.Right and you'll be the one whos jelous
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reader, ClaireAndJamieXX +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Both of you need to take a deep breath and calm down lol she has nothing wrong with her at all. Its perfectly normal to have periods when you just dont have any interest in dating or guys. Tell her just to wait for the right guy to come along and all those butterflys will start up again good luck =] Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): She is 14, she properly isn't intrested in anyone at school at the moment but give it time! You don't have to fancy people all the time
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