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My friend and I love each other, but I'm afraid to get together - what if we break up and lose the friendship?

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Question - (18 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My best friend says that he is falling in love with me and i think i feel the same but i don't know what to do about it because he has always been just a friend. I'm scared that if we ever did break up we would lose our strong friendship, what should I do?

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A female reader, amber1205 United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

just let him no how u feel if u feel its rite do it if u really ove him just try it

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI think maybe its worth taking the chance, if you don't you will always wonder what might have been, and would it have worked. Some of the strongest and best relationships stem from being good friends first.

All the best x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

live for now.

you two love each other - go 4 it!!!!!!!!!!!

i wish i was half as lucky : )

God Bless.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

Go for it. All life is a risk. You never get to go back and do it over.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntWho knows what the future holds but if being together makes you happy then go for it if your friendship is stong then it can survive a break up, its a risk but if it makes you both happy and if you feel strongly for each other go for it

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

rcn agony auntThat's the chances you take. There's no way to determine what's going to happen, but sometimes its better to find out then to always wonder if it could have worked out.

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