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I was bullied for years and because of that am having boy troubles!

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Question - (18 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ilifoxy writes:

I really really want a boyfriend how can i allow my guard down. i find it hard to realte to boys because i was really badly bullied for many years and really want tpo allow myself to be excepted by a boy but i simply don't know how also how do i know when a boy is just being friendly and is not attracted to me. i have never had anyone fancy me. also i REALLY REALLY REALLY LOVE Zac Efron

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A female reader, I'mheretohelpyou United States +, writes (2 June 2008):

I'mheretohelpyou agony auntWho doesn't LOVE ZAC EFRON, even though he's gay, lol. kidding don't kill me!

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntdear Lilyfoxy

it may come as a suprise to know a lot of people are in the same situation as yourself, people who get bullied a lot then cant get a boy friend,if i was you would not look for a boy friend, but instead find boys who want to be your friends, you really do not want to complicate your life at such a young age, in a year ore two when you are in your teens then you will be a bit more mature, then if you want a boy friend,get one, but at present relax, get on with your school work and enjoy your life, there is an old saying all things come to he/she who waits, that means when you are older great things will happen for you, do not rush into any thing, because if you do and it all goes wrong then you will have heart break, and you really really do not want to go through that honestly.

hope this helps you

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

Just be his friend. Don't think about it too hard. It will go where it goes.

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