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writes:So I'm pretty much stuck right now. So I met this guy at a restaurant 3 weeks ago(waiter) while I was with my family. He was being friendly(of course) but he was also flirting with me. Long story short he had the guts to ask for my # in front of my parents. BTW he's 19 and I'm 17. However he didn't txt me. So I just thought I guess he did it to be nice or something but doesn't like me. I had been talking to a friend for 3 months all cool ..just as friends tho. This guy ended up telling me he had been liked me since the 1st time he saw me. so we hung out, and I was all smiley being with him . that night he asked me out so I said yes. It has now been 5 days that we are together, he's funny, really sweet, caring the bad thing is that he can be boring sometimes b/c I'm the one who talks more and he's very restricted when it comes to going out to places . So where's the problem? Well I was at the mall today and passed by some guy, but I didn't think anything of it . Turns out that guy, was the waiter! He came up to my mom and me ,he said he was being completely honest that he had lost my #. So then he asked for my # and he began texting me. We were texting as if we had been texting for more than a day. (as in it felt so comfortable and natural). We were texting about something and he somehow managed to ask if I wanted to hang out . I said yea. This guy is funny, kind. Respectful and definitely cuter, has plans for his future and is waiting to be accepted to the same college I want to go to. Unlike my now boyfriend who is now considered a 2nd year sophomore/junior while I'm a senior . What should I do? Please help I'm so confused! Stay with my bf or get to know this guy who is more mateur and that my parents would definitely approve of and get along with ?
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reader, SweetLipsX0 +, writes (5 August 2012):
SweetLipsX0 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Wow ...so I just got home from having dinner & ice cream with the guy. We had an awesome time together ..getting to know more about each other...he told me he wants to hang out again soon. he also told me he wants to just hang out with me and see where things go from there .
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (4 August 2012):
 Well, I wouldn't say that hanging out with someone you're attracted to is cheating- are you just supposed to hang out with unattractive people only when you're dating someone? No!
However, you shouldn't hang out with someone who you are attracted to and want to pursue when dating someone.
I'm glad things are working themselves out :)
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reader, SweetLipsX0 +, writes (4 August 2012):
SweetLipsX0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeyy thanks for the help. I talked with one my friends to help me settle this . I came to conclusions that it WAS better if I just broke up with my boyfriend. because if i had continued being with him then going and hanging out With this other guy ..would be considered cheating because I am attracted to him . So I broke up with him & he's asking me to give him another chance and i already made my decision for us to just be friends.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (4 August 2012):
It's obvious that you don't REALLY want to be with your current boyfriend.. so don't. You've only been together a few days which is not a big deal, so just say you'd prefer to go back to being friends.
As for the other guy, do NOT pursue him until after everything is officially done with your current boyfriend. Then go slow from there, very slow both for your benefit and so your current boyfriend doesn't think youleft him just so you could date this new guy.
Hope this helped!
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