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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Should I leave him? Im a 24 yr old woman I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 yrs nowthings havent been perfect i must admit we have gone through a lot, and it seemed all is behind, we have a 1 yr old daughter and she is my world, main reason i am still with him. So in the past he has been addicted to porn, he lies about mundane things which sometimes makes me wonder if he lies more than i know. my question is he has belittled me to his "best friend" before he calls me his old gun, bulet without powder, i cock block him....you know something you would say about a f*** buddy not the mother of your child and today i found out he was doing it again...Ive never done anything to him for him to treat me like trash he is 7 yrs older than me and i thought he would be different turns out hes horrible, im always wrong in arguments he has not for one day taken care of our daughter without handing her to me in 5 minutes, he doesnt play with her doesnt do anything with us if i dont force him. is there more for me or should I stick around for my baby? has anyone been in an emotionally abusive relationship before that can offer me insight??
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 August 2012):
I'd leave. IF the only reason you stay is for your child go ahead and leave... never stay with someone for a child... kids are resilient and bounce back easily.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (20 August 2012):
anyone who treats you badly should be avoided. the reasons for that behavior are irrelevant. you need to find another person
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reader, G_D +, writes (4 August 2012):
leave him with his porn ..
this will be better for you and your daughter too ..
:)
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