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writes: My fiancee has tried to meet people online. he says it is only for fun and he would never actually go meet them but its sounds strange to me. Does that sound normal? i am the one and only person he has slept with and i have had muliple partners. i am worried that he wants to try other people. Should i be worried?
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reader, marie78 +, writes (11 November 2006):
Your fiance is trying to meet women online! Come on... you're telling me that a grown man can't meet friends in the "real' world? The internet is a fantasy world, and if I were him, I'd be afraid of the freindships that I'd develop online, as people lie about themselves. You should confront him with your concerns, but trust me, he's not trying to meet meaningful friends online! Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Why does he want to meet people online? Is he bored? I wouldn't be too chuffed with my bf if he was doing it so why should you?
Has he got any friends outside of the internet? I like to go out once a fortnight with my best friend (female), we have a great girlie night, nattering and sorting out stuff. Maybe he needs a friend to just chill with occasionally. But not that internet cr*p. Let him know how you feel. Take care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I would be worried. If he is trying to meet people online just for fun he is sending a message that he is not having fun with you. He may feel that he is missing something. Now when you say people is this males, females, or both?
I would say that he may be curious and want to experience new people(i.e. females). However sweetie, you know our man better than anyone. It obvious that you feel something is wrong. Go with your gut feeling. Have a serious conversation with your man and let him know exactly how you feel.
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