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writes:Someone help me to understand how I can cope with my situation. Im 24, and my fiance is same age as me. He travels a lot abroad with work, and this bugs me a hell of a lot. He isnt really present much in the relationship as what he used to be. Right now, he is away for 3 weeks, and of course he has access to get on the internet from the hotel but he chooses not get online to see how im doing. we just sms and it bugs me cause i can bet my life that his coworkers who are married and are with him there get on for their wives when the can. yet, my guy doesnt. I smsed 3times him about asking if he can get online prior to sleep and he has ditched my topic in and just replied how many days left till departure with many mispelled words leading me think that he is drinking in the evenings. And so, I dont feel much prioritized as I should be and so, i dont know how i can cope with this. I have a gutt feeling that he is bing unfaithful and thus is much contact with me. Am i paranoid or shouldnt I worry?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 I'm with Tommy7. Also, I must add that he needs to travel. Otherwise, he'll be out of a job.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (17 October 2007):
Is he in a career where this will be the norm? If so, maybe he's not the guy for you. When I travelled it usually involved late nights of dinners and meetings. I used my spare time resting or preparing for the next meeting. I had no time for woman chasing.
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