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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my fiance wont talk to me about getting married anymore, it used to be a great thing now sense we had a scare about me being pregnant he has completely stopped talking about getting married and every time I try bringing up the subject he flips!!! I don't know what to say anymore, he proposed to me on christmas 2007 and ever sense then he wont talk about getting married, also I tried bringing up that there is going to be a engagement party and he yet again flipped i don't know how to make him happy! Im not pregnant, so i don't know what to do, thanks
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 Maybe you need to hold off the marriage plans for a few years. Your boyfriend may have realized that he's not mature enough to make that kind of commitment yet.
And honestly, at the age of 17 are you really sure that you want to get married? Marriage isn't a magic formula for making a relationship work. It requires work every day.
You're still young. Enjoy your youth. You can always have the marriage, mortgage and children later. Enjoy what you have now for what it is. Love is never as ecstatically blissful as when you're young.
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