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writes:I dated this girl for 2 years. We've been broke up coming up on a year. Everythings was fine, until the last 3 months of the relationship. She ended up moving with her best friend and we started not seeing eye to eye. Yes, sometimes i would trip on things with her and act out of line. We started to get in arguments that sometimes got physical. We ended up just saying let it go. Well it was very hard for me to that. She has went on and is in a relationship now with a boy, they've been together for about 6 months. She lives with him and his mother. He just hit her recently but went back, she said because she has no where to go. Which is true because her family really doesn't want anything to do with her. Me on the other hand, I have friends but have yet to get in a relationship. I still love my ex. We talk on the phone just about everyday. She will call me while he is in the shower or gone. We have had some sexual encounters while she is in this relationship. She has even spoken of a future, she makes the comment "We gona be alright". We spend time together from time to time, get a bite to eat, chill with friends. It's almost as if we may still be together, but its not all the way there. I'm jus trying to figure out what's really goin on. Is there a future or is it just friends??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): Hi, I was in a similar situation as you except it was the other way around. My bf broke up with me and I was devastated but we remained friends, best friends even went the movies bite to eat having a laugh. Deep down I always wanted us to get back together and thought still having sexual encounters with him would achieve this. We still did it when he was with someone else, they treated him badly but he stayed with them i dont know why. I just got more hurt so eventually I put a stop to it. This carried on for about 3-4 years and we are now back together after talking about our feelings. If we had just sat down and talked about it it could have happened alot sooner. i suggest that you sit and talk about how you both feel, chances are she still wants you but probably doesnt want to admit it (or shes scared of the brute shes with now) good luck.
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