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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I used to go out with this guy, who i really liked but he broke up with me a few weeks after me losing my virginity to him. I was angry at the time but got over it quite quickly!.....But my parents, family and close friends did not and still speak badly of him!Anyway we meet up for the first time in ages last year and really got on but he was with someone at the time, he now has a child with her, they broke up but are still fairly friendly with each other.We have gradually started meeting up and seeing each other more and i really like him and he feels the same...the only problem is breaking this to my family and friends because they hate him.....!!!Any advice would be great!! Thank you!!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 August 2008):
Your friends and family are only concerned for you and want you to be happy so don't get angry if they disaprove. Instead let them know gently and maybe invite him around for dinner once the news has sunk it a bit. After a while, once you have proved you're serious about each other they should start to come around and accept the idea.
Make sure you truely trust this guy before getting in deep.
Good luck xxx
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reader, kylie.  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 I've been through this one before. He was too old for my, broke my virginity and we broke up. We talk from time to time but my parents didnt know how to accept it. Since your age says your 18-21, Go ahead and tell your family when you feel the time in right. They may be mad for a little while, but eventually they'll get over it. Follow your heart. Everybody wants to be happy =]
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