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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have gone as far as dry humping with my girlfriend, having my hand down her bra and deep kissing her but i dont want to freak her out by mentioning sex. I was wondering if she maybe wanted to have sex though as the last time we were alone together she was rubbing my groin and she undone my trousers and started pulling down my boxers when my familys car pulled into the drive (great timing huh) so i was wondering if these were signs that she was wanting to have sex or are my signals mixed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): She's sending clear signals she is willing to engage in some sort of sexual activity by rubbing your penis and pulling down your boxers. That's not innocent contact. Maybe it's not intercourse she's looking for. Maybe a handjob, or even oral sex. My advice is to let her take the lead next time you're alone and see what she has in mind. Make sure you have protection and don't force the issue. Good luck to you!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 August 2008):
Well I think you can clearly say she is interested in you sexually. If you have been together for a while and you feel ready then and think she feels the same then let her know, she may just be waiting for you to say something. If you are in a loving relationship then talking about sex shouldnt be uncomfortable.
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reader, Sazzness +, writes (25 August 2008):
 how long have you been with her?
if i were you, then (i've been in this position), i'd just stick to masturbating each other and oral until you feel ready for sex.
obviously, wait until you're both comfortable with everything above. :] x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is 16 btw and we are both virgins
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reader, Sazzness +, writes (25 August 2008):
from what i can tell, she wants some sexual contact.
you don't have to jump straight into sex, though.
you could try using your hands to mutual masturbate with her. maybe, after some time, put some oral into it.
just wait until you both think it's the right time to have sex with her though. :]
otherwise have fun!
remember, when you do decide to do it, use a condom. :]
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