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anonymous
writes:My ex has been bugging to meet me for weeks now..I dumped him for many reasons. I am not interested in getting back to him...because I have moved on.. I am actually 7 months pregnant... While we have been apart for a year and a half.. He also moved on, got a girlfriend and tried to rub it in my face and social media... And I know they are still together his just trying to play her. On the other hand I have tried to share as little as possible... His not aware what's going on in my life.. . His kind of someone who loves attention... So he wants us to meet.. Talk.. Misses me.. Bra bra.. All the bullshit.... I am just wondering should I go n meet him just to rub my bump in his face..sometimes it's good to see how people react when served cold ..... Or I come up with an excuse n just ignore him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2020): If you have truly moved on why is this ex even a blip on your radar . Why do you give him one minutes thought and why would you even ask if you should consider meeting him . The answer is obvious , a person who’s truly moved on would t even THINK about having time to meet up with an ex . They would be too busy getting on with their fabulous life and planning for the upcoming arrival of their new baby . Forget him and focus on you . Stop looking at his posts . Why can you even SEE what he posts about him and his new girlfriend ? Surely you have blocked and removed him from every single social media site you are on ? And if not , why not ? You honestly don’t sound like your have moved on , you sound like you watch his social media and you want to meet up with him . Have you truly moved on ? Where is the father of your baby , you don’t mention him ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2020): You sound like you want to stir-up drama and create havoc.
Why can he still contact you? If you're over him, why would you bother to respond?
Sweetheart, get-over any bitterness he has left in you. Once it's out of your system, you're home-free. Your post doesn't come-across like a woman who has moved-on. It's more like a woman scorned, and you're itching to make trouble.
If it's not his kid, what would rubbing it in his face mean? What good would it do?
Careful about wishing ill-will on others, or being spiteful. If you're happy, be happy; and have absolutely nothing more to do with him. No response is necessary! He should be blocked from your phone; and denied access to your social media accounts. Out of sight, out of mind!
You have another life now, leave the other one behind. Never wish harm or misfortune on anybody. It didn't workout for him and you, and now he's with someone else. If you've found your happiness, that's all that matters.
Life moves forward, while the past stands still! Don't look back! Congratulations!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2020): the fact that you're even talking to an ex and considering meeting up with him says an awful lot about you as a person. especially when you're with someone and have a child on the way. no respect for your partner at all. I feel sorry for him. time to grow up.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 March 2020):
 eh, why bother talking to him or meeting up? You obviously have a new partner and baby on the way, focus on that, not some pathetic ex!
Aren't you a little old for teenage drama games?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (9 March 2020):
 The best revenge is to have a happy life. You don't need to prove anything to your ex. The opposite of love is indifference. Sadly you don't yet feel indifferent to your ex, otherwise you would just ignore his messages. Why have you not deleted and blocked him, especially given his current contact?
Have you asked your current boyfriend how he would feel about you meeting up with your ex?
How would you feel if you were the current girlfriend of your ex and he was arranging to meet up with his ex behind your back?
You dumped your ex for good reasons. Leave him in the past where he belongs. Pity the lady he is with now and be happy for yourself, your current partner and your baby.
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