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*estiny28
writes:I started going out with this Leo guy in his early 30's and he came on pretty full on at the start. I had recently come out of a relationship and wasn't sure at the time if I was ready for this. It became intense and the times we shared were fantastic. He started changing after a few months and things didn't add up with his stories and actions. I got a bit suspicious at the time but had reallly no proof other than my gut feeling. However, I found some pretty sleezy text from other females on his phone which pretty much threw me off the wagon and he hit on my g/f's on my b'day and other girls. So my friends say!!! Point of the matter is that he was all lovey dovey through out the whole relationship and when I broke it off regarding the events mentioned above I haven't heard from him since!!!! As quick as he came as fast he went ... just gone and disappeared like he never existed. Was this part of his game plan and didn't I mean anything to him?2 days ago - 1 day left to answer. Additional Details2 days agoI don't understand how a person can play with others feeling like this and still be able to live without any guilt. I wonder how many he is doing this to as I truly doubt I am the only one. This guy has some serious issues!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): I don't know about his feeling or intentions; but from what you have described in your posting; vow you are better off without this guy; be happy he is out of your life; be happy you realized who and what he is before you got too involved;
I suggest you stop wasting time and brain power about him and his feelings; consider him for what he is: Past tense;
MOVE ON; start spending your energy and thoughts on something more positive; he wasted enough of your time; dwelling on him and his issues is not going to make it any better and is avoiding you from moving on and looking forward;
Let it be; forget about him, he is part of yeaterday; start living for today and look forward to tomorrow;
Find somebody who will value you and treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): Well, it is probably best to trust your friends. He probably flirted with them. Why do men flirt? Two reasons: To express interest in a woman in hope of development OR to satisfy their ego.
My guess is he did it for both reasons. He takes pride in thinking women are turned on by him and as soon as you dumped him, he thought "great, plenty more out there."
He was affectionate with you probably for the same reason he flirts with different woman, because it validates his abilities with women.
Don't worry. Sounds like a jerk. You are lucky to be rid of him. You can do much better!
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