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writes:my ex officially cut me off for the same reason below... what do i do now? he told me he doesn't care about me and he never will... And if i have a miscarriage he really wouldn't care.. i'm crying my eyes out because i didn't believe that this is the boy who i love very much. Talking to me like this... uqhhh! my friend and I made a bet that we aren'tgoing to talk to these boys for two weeks and let them suffer.. do you think that that is a good idea ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Don't ever do anything to make another person suffer. It will only hurt you in the end. Just worry about yourself.Anyone who tells you they don't care about you and never will is telling you about themselves. Only a certain type of person can not care about another and only a certain type of person will tell another person they don't care and never will. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with you. So what you have to understand is that primarily what he has done is insulted you and you have allowed him to make you feel unimportant. Don't allow it anymore. Don't seek approval from someone who is such a lowlife and so undeveloped in maturity and character that he can tell someone, ANYONE, that he doesn't care and never will. Don't give someone like that ANY credibility. His big secret is he is talking to himself, not you, and only using you as a mirror. THAT is the TRUTH. It's sad for him. Get away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Honey, I know how you feel....you fall for someone and then they change on you all sudden...it can be heart breaking.....I don't know what to tell you. I had an ex boyfriend call me all kinds of names...he even tried to "pass" me off to his best friend as if I was some piece of "meat" for the taking, he lied on me to people we used to work with, he had his girlfriend at the time contacting me....it was just a horrible exp. because, he was the first guy I was ever in love with....but it took me about 8 months to 1 year to get over him and NOW since I no longer love or care about him, he wants me..he stalks me, he stalks my family on networking sites, he hand writes letters and drops them off at my parents house....the whole nine yards. I would never, ever go back to him even if he was the last man on earth. This guy is being a total jerk....but he will regret it...trust me he will. I know just how hard it can be to leave someone you call yourself falling in love with, but you must work up the mental strength to do it.
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reader, rcn +, writes (3 January 2011):
 It sounds like this boy is not very nice to you to begin with. I'd recommend not associating with him anymore and finding a guy that's right for you and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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reader, PRiNCESS628 +, writes (3 January 2011):
Ughh If he doesnt care about you forget about him..your gonna find a wayy better guy trust me..
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