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anonymous
writes:plz help..my head is wrecked!! i was with a guy 4 two years and was madly in love but then he became 2 possesive and i couldnt handle it so i finished wit him..we both moved on..5 months later we get close again i realise hes changed and fall 4 him all over again but it seemed lyk he had more time 4 other girls more than me so i finish it again and this tym he doesnt seem bothered..this hurts and i found it hard to get over him till his best friend and i start seeing each other and i start to lyk him..we get on gr8..we were seeing each other 4 a week when my ex starts texting me again tellng me saying he stil likes me.i dont txt him bak and then he asks his friend not 2 see me as he still lyks me so hes friend finishes it,,i was devastated! im here now 1 week later and cant get it out of my head..what do u suggest i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): well love id say move on ur new ex boyfriend obviously seems like he is taking a back seat to see if there is any chance of you and his mate are going to get bk 2 getha, i know it stinks but you should maybe talk to him
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reader, aunty t +, writes (7 March 2007):
 God what a mess. I think your ex wants it all for himself. He didnt really want you but he didnt want his friend to have you either. His friend sounds like a nice guy and probably didnt want to lose the friendship so he gave you up instead. It doesnt seem fair. I would forget the pair of them and dont let your ex wangle his way back into your life. Put your energy into someone who will appreciate you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Your newly ex-boyfriend was stuck in a situation where he either carried the relationship going with you and lost his best friend or finishes with you and keeps his best mate. He chose to finish with you for the sake of his best friend. Forget him. And also forget your other ex-boyfriend. You have already been out with him twice plus he might have been lying to your newly ex-boyfriend about liking you again to split you both up. Move on and you'll stop thinking about your newly ex-boyfriend in time too.
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reader, wickedrachel  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 the both of you are playing the field, you both have now done things to hurt each other, when you 1st broke up with him he must of been hurt, and when you done it the second time he realised but now the tables have turned and your with his friends he is jealous, it seems it ok for you to be with him and him to be with others but not for you to be with others and totally selfish. stick with his friend love and move on, ignore him he cant be a good friend if he is doing this
take it slow and think wisely
rachel
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