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writes:hey , I dont think My boyfriend likes me anymore..At first we couldnt keep our hands of each other but he moved house and he lives next door to lots of girls around the same age as us. One of them the same age as me keeps syaing horrible things about me. He goes to their house EVERY day insted of my house and he hardly talks to me!! He was on webcam while he was at his next door neighbours house and one of them was saying that she was kissing and feeling him up and everything!! I wass dead upset.. But all i said was okay and he wants to know why i didnt cause a fight and I didnt want to seem hard or owt and he wont call me now .. I feel like ive lost him!! HELP IM IN TEARS !"!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): It seems your boyfriend enjoys the attention from the girls. Have you mentioned how you feel? It helps to talk it out however, in your situaiton, I say move on. There is always someone out there for you. You're still young with many more heartbreaks to come. It's just the beginning. Move on girlie.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 This is awful for you. I know that you probably dont want to hear this but he is not for you. You sound like a very caring girl and I wouldnt waste any more time worrying about him, it is his loss. Let him see your not bothered even if you are. He is probably looking for a reaction from you. This other girl is throwing herself at him and he is lapping it up. Even if he called you I would tell him to get lost. You are worth more than that. Leave them to it.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (7 March 2007):
I'm sorry for you. This may be your first really painful loss and it stinks. Sadly, it probably won't be your last either.
As he is being such a thoughtless idiot, if I were you I would aim to retain my dignity as best I can and simply tell him that you don't want to see him anymore as you don't like him any longer.
If there is any chance that he still likes you, he will fight for you. But I wouldn't hold your breath.
Find someone who will treat you properly.
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reader, Kody +, writes (7 March 2007):
To you Girl
I fear that you mayindead be loseing him and that is a sorrow for you but if he wants to do that and go to other girls houses.You dont need him
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reader, toots +, writes (7 March 2007):
to be perfectly honest, it seems like your man enjoys the attention he is getting from all those girlies and you. its like your fighting over him, he's loving it. that might be why he asked you why you didnt start a fight with the girl on da webcam, he wanted you to. he is doing this to wind you up and get a reaction. you need to take a step back and tell him how you feel.
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reader, wickedrachel +, writes (7 March 2007):
 love if he is doing this to you is he worth it. he wanted to know why you didn make a fuss cos he expected you to, that is how childish he is, let him grow up a bit and see what he has missed, and dont be disheartened about these other girls, if he treats you like dirt he will treat them, move on and find someone else, shows who is boss
rachel
go girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): He wanted a fight between you and the girl who's saying the she was kissing and feeling him up because he wants a reaction of jealousy from you and also likes the sound of two girls fighting over him. Is the girl who says horrible things about you the same girl trying to steal your boyfriend? If so she's obviously jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend. There's a possibility that your boyfriend in fact kissing and being feeled up by one of the girl next door to him but whether he did or not i would dump him and move on, after all you are only young.
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