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*razzzy
writes:I started dating my ex a while back, i introduced him to my best friend, and when we broke up i thought he would not talk to her, but they are still talking, they even going on double dates.. i dont kno what to do cuz i stil have deep feelings for him and i dont want to let him go, he is also dating my other friend.. i dont wanna lose my friend, but i cant keep her if she still talkes to him cause i get jealous and think they have something going on.. what should i do??
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reader, Rubzz  +, writes (3 April 2011):
Omg my friend is going out with my ex and it kills to see them kissing and stuff so I. Had to tell her that I still like him she said I dont mind if Simone likes him or he likes Somone sOi no now hard this is but I do this thing that kinda helps write a list about things u like about the boy and things u dont it will help u to get over him x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): well im kinda in the same place and wut i do is i let them be them and do wut they want and wait for her to come back to me cuz my best friend does not want me to hang out with my other best friend cuz she is my ex so its hard cuz ive been friends with her for like 8 years and i love her to death and i just wait till she comes to me
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 Talk to your friend. Accept what's going on. Dump your friends to escape. Who knows. This is a difficult area. We don't know you, or the total situation, but what I can offer for advise is: THIS IS WHY FRIENDS DON'T DATE FRIENDS EX'S
As a general rule, keep that in mind. Dating friends ex's only causes problems, and it's courtesy for your friend not to date someone they dated.
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reader, Crazzzy +, writes (19 September 2007):
Crazzzy is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni asked her not to be his friend, now she is saying that they have become really close, an she has only known him for a month, but i have known her for six months... i dont mind, i think i will just leave them together.. i have other friends.. thanks for all your help....xxxx
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reader, WiiFeyTooBex0 +, writes (18 September 2007):
 well does she know that ou still like this boy and that you have feelings for him..? if hse does then that is no good friend and if she dont then you should tell her and tell her that you dont wanna loose a good friend over this but you still have feelings for him and that you dont want her to talk to him like that and just be nice about it but you know that if she was a true friend she would have asked a nd respected your answer.
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