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writes:ive really messed up this time, ive been separated from my wife for nearly three years,i work as a taxi driver and pick her up at weekends and go back to my flat for sex, on saturday she fell asleep and i went through her phone to which there was txt from a guy saying he cant get her out of his head and she had replied that she had somewhere for them to go for the night,i phoned the guy and left a really nasty message on his answer phone,my wife went mental at me and said it was all a joke with him as they are just friends,my ex said im a psycho and will never phone or talk to me again,i still love her so much...
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Nah, I don't think it was a joke. That's the oldest excuse in the books. I think she had a thing going on and you busted her. If you've been separated for 3 yrs. you probably should've known she'd find someone else. I don't know why you guys are separated, if it was her move, or yours. If it was hers, she probably met someone a long time ago, and is just trying to ease out of her marriage, giving you time to adjust to life without her. Or maybe she wants to be sure of this guy before she takes the plunge. If it was you, then she probably got lonely and found someone to spend time with. Either way, it looks like the marriage is over now. Even if she did forgive you, you will probably have a hard time trusting her ever again. And do you really want to live like that?
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (18 September 2007):
She probably feels like you've betrayed her in some sort of way. You two have been having sex... not getting back together, she probably thinks its a bit of fun. If you want her back just having sex with her aint the way to go. Talk to her and tell her how u feel. No offence but she is free to meet up with other guys, you just need to learn to deal with it in the meantimex
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): Hiya.Assuming you and ex wife didn't end on awful terms as you have still been having sex but where along the lines was it said she couldn't communicate or even date other men? Your separated and you forefitted your rights to having her exclusively to yourself when this happened,sorry.
If you love her still and she feels the same then you should tell her and ressume your relationship, let the contact with the other person go.It was probably harmless flirting anyway. Give her plenty of attention and she wont need anyone else.
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