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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone at cupid,Ive got a question, my ex and i split in november he got rid of me for his ex that never worked out in the end, anyway we was still having sex together untill 17th jan when he got his new gf, anyway, we stayed friends but had a falling out 3 weeks ago and on friday he rang me, he said something like his bday present which i still have he said if i still wanted 2 give it 2 him i could but not in that way ie sex then he laughed But the thing that confuses me is that whenever i see him with his gf or without hes always watching me even somepeople say theres a conection between us, still even tho he says that this new gf of his is THE ONE FOR HIMBut then about 5 weeks ago he said that he wanted 2 suck my tits and then 2 days later he asked me if i was despret for sex and that he was going 2 offer his services 2 me, but i said i wasnt as of his new gf, i think what im trying 2 ask is why does he stare at me am i looking 2 much in2 it, or do u think he could still like me a little after even with this new gf And why would he ask me for sex a few weeks ago, and say about sucking my tits( he should never say that 2 an ex if he has a new gf?)But is it cuz he nows i still like him and that if he asked me he knows i would prob go bk 2 him?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 March 2009):
He does this because he's a horrible bit of work, and he's keeping you on as plan B.
He knows he can talk to you in this disrespectful way and treat you like a prostitute and you'll be there and take it and not cause trouble.
If you lie on the floor and write WELCOME on your forehead, you are going to get used as a door mat. It doesn't mean he likes you, it just means he likes playing with you and likes the fact that he can get a free shag without putting any effort it.
Get some self respect, look at what you are putting up with and get this loser out of your life.
Why is your self esteem so low that you think this is how you deserve to be treated and that a man who treat you like this is the best you can get?
You are worth more.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 OR maybe it's because he's a cheater and a scumbag. Kinda makes you question what he said to other girls while he was dating you.. doesn't it? Stay away from him, tell him you don't want him. I don't think he has genuine feelings for you, I think he's being a scumbag. Hope you eventually see that too.
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