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My ex got rid of our baby, should I have her back hoping she'd want a child this time or continue with my current gf?

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Question - (15 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

ex got rid of baby (I wanted it) I still think about her all of the time (hate and love) after 2 1/2 yrs. She has 2 kids already, I have none, My question is should I risk trying to woo her back thinking she'd have a baby, I'd have to dump my current g.f before btw OR should I try and build a new life with my current gf?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

thanks for your answer. I've asked myself same question about current and previous g.f's truth is I wanted (want) the baby and her, couldnt have both so had to make a choice, guess I'll never truly have it all, so going to make the best of it.

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A female reader, L.O.S.E.R. Serbia +, writes (15 September 2007):

L.O.S.E.R. agony auntLook,I'm not so sure about weather to give you the advice or not cause getting rid of a baby is a BIG decision (especially when you already have 2 kids) and there must be a reason she did it (we can't know).I wanna say,the fact she didn't want your child speaks for itself.Reminiscing kinda never is positive-on my opinion focus on that hate you feel and keep on with your life,best luck with that.But honestly-are you sure your current girlfriend is a good choice to do it with considering the "respect" you showed you have for her in the question you posted?

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