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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a hindu, he is from india and i am from pakistan, he is 22 and i am 15. i dont know wht to do because he is old and he still sometimes talk about her ex gf who is married to someone else. he tells me tht he loves me and we met on msn and we havent seen eachother yet only pictures and he tells me tht we have good compatibility, chemistry dont know but i dont kknow wht to do. we usually talk abt maure matters but if i know something which i m too young 4 i get embarissed which i dont lke. i asked him if i wold never even have sex with him my whole life he still wants to be with me but we fight too much but 1 of us just apologize. he point out every single thing he notices in me if i did something or said something which he doesnt like now the only prob 4 me is tht he is a hindu and i am muslim. i cant do tht. i cant merry someone who is nt my religion but he has no prob but none of us can change our religion so i dont know if i should end it or keep going and i sometimes cry for him too. my Qshould i stay with him?should i marry him?do we have a big age diff?does he love me when he says it?should i tell my parents?i am confuzed on wht to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): hi you didnt say in your letter whether you live near each other or not. do you?? if so it might be possible to meet in a public place, and go for a coffee or do something that other couples do. then you might know whether you are compatible or not.
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 You must be feeling pretty desperate to risk the rest of your life on someone under these circumstances. people who meet on the Internet are missing one very important thing....Chemistry between them.
Anyone can say things and send photos etc and be OK from a distance, but the minute someone walks into a room we can form an opinion about them and the chemistry between people who meet up literally is very important.
Why not wait till someone real comes into your life...you deserve the best....we all do.....don't settle for less....and you have the rest of your life ahead of you....no rush!!!
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