A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My girlfriend and i recenntly broke up she says she still loves me as a boyfiend and that she will take me back when the time is right but she wants me to see other people and she doesnt want to see any other guys she tells me she loves me from time to time and she says she wants change in both of us. Is she just leading me on or is she genuine and will come back to me?
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (5 August 2008):
It sounds to me like she wants to keep you around just in case her new relationships don't work out. I know it sounds horrible and cruel and you may hate me for it, but it's just what it sounds like to me. You cannot tell someone you love them, and then tell them you don't want to date them. I think that she likes being dominant and having men fall to her every will, and if things don't work out with new people she'll come back to you. She needs to learn that she can't have it all. You need to show her you can manage without her!
Wishing you the best.
xx
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