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My ex girlfriend just emailed me!

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Question - (2 September 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *romiker writes:

Humm she emailed me back after I wrote here wanting my coat? This is what she said does it sound like she wants to talk to me again?

here is what she said!

"I dont have a bf at all. And as for your coat why do you need it now?? Its not winter. I will mail it when I have the money. I got into a car accident. Gonna get my car fixed soon and when i get paid and have money i will mail it back."

Thats what she said I have not said any thing to here today does it sound like she wants to talk again pls let me know what you think ?

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A male reader, ManAfterChrist United States +, writes (3 September 2010):

ManAfterChrist agony auntYou're asking so many questions over a simple e-mail. You may be correct; you DO know her better than any of us. Try talking to her and figuring it out.

Me? I think it was a simple e-mail saying she will get the coat back to you but she's had some trouble. That's it. Nothing in small print. But again, you know her better than I do.

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A male reader, promiker  United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

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So it was weird when she wrote me at that time. I went out side in I was thanking about her thats all I could think about was her when she wrote me that email. I know she has no money and its been 3 weeks that I have wanted my coat back in its a $120 coat. But why would she say that she got in a car accident though..?

Is she trying to tell me its my fault? Or is she trying to talk with me again trying to make me fill bad like I dont get it. In the reason why I ask her about if she had a bf was because she had a pogo account in it said she was taken? So what was that email about I mean I just dont get it is it a lost cause or is she trying to talk with me again I dont know what if she does not right me back I ask if she was still ok in stuff...

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntAgreed, Boston gets cold. Then this is just an email about your coat nothing more. By her telling you she got into the car crash says she's saving up for the repairs and then she'll send your coat but it's not priority right now. And maybe she wants a little sympathy..

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A male reader, ManAfterChrist United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

ManAfterChrist agony auntMaybe because she got in a car crash?

Was this a recent break up? You seem angry at her, and you just said "hope she has fun with her boyfriend"... even though she explicitly said "I don't have a bf at all".

So I'm just a little confused.

I'd call her to get straight information. Are you concerned for her health at all after the car accident? You should see how she's doing and if she can't send the coat right away, it's just a coat. Go buy a cheap coat for the weekend if you really need it.

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A male reader, promiker  United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

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Yeah she lives in boston in i live in oregon do i cant get in in real life so that would be hard lol. But Yeah why would she be like I got in a car crash? I just said hope she has fun with her boy friend . In I wanted my coat back because Im going fishing ?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntDid you ask her if she had a boyfriend? Because if she just randomly volunteered that info, then yeah that sounds like she wants to talk. If that's the case you should go and get the coat in person. Now, if you didn't ask that then you're overanalyzing a conversation that's about getting your stuff back.

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