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writes: I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating!I'm 19 years old and I'm going out with a guy. We've been together for 6 months now. I love him so much! The thing is he has alot of contact with this girl and he says she is really nice, which makes me paranoid!Whenever he gets texts from her he never opens them in front of me. I once saw a text from her saying about meeting up and he did as I saw his replies in sent items! I feel guilty for looking but I had to. I've tried speaking to him and he says he isn't cheating and they are friends, but why does he hide it from me? What do I do now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006):
Ask to meet her. Tell your boyfriend the truth that you feel threatened by the unknown portion of their relationship. In person, you'll be able to see if there is sparks or just friendship.
Who knows you might make a new friend and keep an old boyfriend.
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reader, MissMo +, writes (28 September 2005):
Trust is essential to any relationship, and it sounds like there needs to be more honesty in your relationship. You do not trust your boyfriend, which is why you are looking at his phone. He is hiding information from you, and you need to find out why. Let him know that in order for you to trust him, he needs to let you know about his interactions with his friend. If it truly is an innocent friendship, then he should be fine being upfront about it. In addition, if he really cares about you, he will keep your feelings in mind and will be honest with you about his interactions with her. Are you usually jealous and "paranoid" in relationships, or is it just with this guy? It's ok for him to have friendships with other girls, but if he is talking to this girl every day, then that's a little unecessary. If he refuses to be honest with you, and if he insists on keeping VERY regular contact with this girl, then you have reason to be suspicious.
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