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writes:Hi, my ex emailed me after a long time. We just had a closure. We now have our own love life but I know that he's still unhappy since he's experiencing problems with his family. And I'm kinda confused with how I'm feeling right now because first... I have given him problems while we were together like liking another guy while still with him so I'm kind of felt guilty. Second, it's because i know he really needs someone to help him stand again. I am so unsure on what to do or how i really feel. I'm not sure if i just feel pity or what. How will I know what I really feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi kenny, that was a good advice. thanks! at least after reading your advice, somehow my confusion has lessened now. hopefully everything will be back to normal again.
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reader, miss fit  +, writes (4 May 2007):
relationships are gr8 and they make us feel complete. the downside is that more often than not its hard to be friends with your ex. if you help him it will just bring back painful memories and aggrivate the relationship you have now. like you said, you have closure. keep it that way.
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 May 2007):
 I think you are maybe feeling abit guilty for how the relationship ended, and liking someone else while you were still with him.
I don't think you still have feelings for him, but him emailing you is making you think you should help him with his problems.
If you start helping him it could cause problems in your current relationship, i would be inclined to not help him and concentrate on your current relationship.
Good luck
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