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anonymous
writes:Something wired happened yesterday .. the whole day I was thinking about my ex boyfriend and how I missed him. Its strange for me to dwell on something so much, especially since we broke up last January, hadnt spoken in months and i've been in and out of another relationship since him. But, for whatever reason, he was on my mind.Then when I logged into msn in the evening, he was on there and immediately started talking to me - strange because as I said, we hadnt spoken in months. Hes actually at uni now, so I asked him a bit about that, then he asked if I had webcam. I said no, and he said 'aww I wanted to see you'... then he started talking about our relationship, or more specifically, our past sex life. He was talking about how I was good in bed, and he missed my body.. then he told me he was coming back home in December, and did I fancy meeting up for sex.Now before you start thinking hes an a**hole (and agree, from my description he does a bit like one)I should explain a bit about him: we had to break up because we lived that bit too far apart to make it work properly, and when we did, I was devastated. It took me a long time to get over him, and even now I know deep down I probably still have feelings for him. I felt I was in kind of a vulnerable position last night, as i'd been thinking about him all day it felt like a big coincidence that he was coming out with all this stuff.. so I agreed to most things he said. He left the ball in my court, and told me I should text him in december.To be honest, I am tempted to meet up with him when he comes home, but although I know for him It would just be sex, i'm scared I might get emotionally involved again, and end up in the same position I was in 10 months ago. On the other hand, its familiar - we know each others likes and dislikes, what works for us, and I know it would be great because it always was. what do you think I should do?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
If you're going to meet him, take it slow. Don't give yourself away to him so easily, because you don't yet know if he's just using you or whether he really is interested. Remember he now has a life at uni that you don't know abut. So take this slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Do your heart a big favor and say no . Unless sex is all YOU want . Emotionaly its never worth it in the end .
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