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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend got dumped by his girlfriend now he keeps texting me asking for sex and it is really annoying me and my boyfriend now! I am ignoring him but he just isn't getting the picture, if I don't reply he gets a little abusive in the text messages and over facebook I have blocked him on there but still manages to send me messages! it is driving me crazy cos I finished it 6 months ago and he just doesn't give up!!!what the heck can I do?/?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 You could change your phone number and only give it to those who are closest to you, whom you trust not to give it out.
You could also change your Facebook settings so that only friends can see or contact you.
It may take a while but eventually he will go away. He'll give up on your or find someone else.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 Well, save his number then... can't be that difficult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012): Tell him not to text you again.. If he does then you will take your phone as proof to the nearest police station and he will be arrested under the harassment act.. As simple as that
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 Well if that is all it takes...then save it to your phone and block him. Or call your phone provider to see if there are other ways to get the job done.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (13 October 2012):
 I agree with Bondgirl. Ignore him. Keep ignoring him.
If he sends another text, save it in your phone so you can block him.
Whatever, don't add to the drama.
If it gets serious, however, you involve the police (in which case, keep evidence).
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (13 October 2012):
You find ways to block him or dump your entire Facebook site and start over. There are ways to go about this. Also, you never communicate with creeps like this...it just fuels them even more because they know they can get your attention.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (12 October 2012):
 Block his number from your phone and block him on facebook.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012): you should try and avoid temptation. stay clear of him as much as you can. it would be a good idea to keep a note of the messages he sends you. try to talk to him with someone to let him know were he stands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis number isn't saved into my phone so I can't block it! So annoying :/
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reader, chigirl +, writes (12 October 2012):
"Leave the the hell alone"
It's also possible to block his phone number you know. Play around with your phone until you figure it out, or call tech support.
If that doesn't work, make your boyfriend call him and that ought to scare him away. If all else fails: keep the messages, write down the dates of how often he messages you, and once you've got a solid documentation you go to the police with it and report him for harassment.
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