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Broke it off with ex but he won't move on! He's scaring me. What should I do?

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Question - (12 October 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a guy online, we talked for a few months before meeting for coffee. Then we met a second time and that was it. Due to distance we couldn't see each other very often so we just texted. But during that time I met someone else, also online, and we've been together for 2 months now and are exclusive.

So I ended up breaking things off with the first guy, telling him I met someone else. That should have been the end of it but he hasn't not stopped bothering me demanding reasons why we can't be friends and why he can't be in my life. He even threw a hissy fit and called me all sorts of names. It's been 3 days and I just want him to stop. I've tried not writing back and I've tried to tell him to move on and leave me alone but nothing is working.

He keeps writing and it's to the point where I'm getting scared. What should I do? Please help

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (13 October 2012):

Honeypie agony auntBlock him? De-friend him, remove him from your life as best as you can.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012):

Ignore him and tell the police in your area. Even though he dosen't live in your state and it's not in the police durisdiction dosen't mean they can't do anything. Call and get everything on record. The police can give you more tips. Don't be afraid to ask for help and let friends and family know whats going on. Also don't date people you meet online they could be anyone it's unsafe. Gd luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2012):

Report him to the authority.. No joke if his scaring you that much, you gotta do what you have to do.

also block him on the website where you 2 met, block him on your messenger, email addy,skype, block him from anything that he can try to communicate with you.

Change your number if you must..

This guy sounds creepy. he should know how to let go and move on. Don't talk to him again. Be careful too coz he is really scary...

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