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writes:Hi there, I've just received a text from my ex boyfriend asking if we want to mess around..! We broke up about 6 months ago and we've 'messed around' once since then.I do still really like him and I know that we could never get back together because it just wouldn't work as our lives are too different. The thing is is that it just would be really nice to spend time with him like old times but I don't want to get too attatched. I also don't want to get a reputation as being a slag or easy.Do you think this 'messing around' business is a good idea? Bearing in mind that I know and don't want it to lead to anything more but I don't want to get a bad reputation!Sorry of this is a bit confusing!Thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): it is not a good idea at all believe u will be left feelin used and ashamed that u gave into his needs. tell him to go take a hike. if he had any respect for u and wanted you back in his life he would tell u out staight that he missed you and wanted u back! now he's jus lookin for his bit cause he cant get it from any one else!!
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reader, gloriawk55  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Don't do it. He is just using you for equipment. Maybe other girls won't do it, because he is carrying something. Why else would he do it with you!Hope this helps!xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (12 August 2007):
 If you havent got feelings for him & just want a bit of fun, then i wouldnt worry what anyone else thinks! What about if he eventually meets someone new while hes 'messing around' with you, and decides he wants to be faithful to her, are you cool with that?
I couldnt do it, but each to their own.
I certainly wouldnt be worrying what others say though. Its no one elses business!
C xxxxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 If you still like your ex, stay away from him.
Doing sexual things with him will just make it soo much worse.
I've been there, I know.
You know it will do no good for you what so ever, it'll just satisfy his needs. You don't wanna be used like that.
You're worth more than a bit on the side for him to play around with. Realise that you're worth more than that.
Take care xx
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