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writes:My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago due to him relocating to another place. In this time, he got back together with his ex gf.. and they even went on some kind of vacation together.. I had a hard time getting over this relationship.. and now when i'm finally feeling better and moving on.. he comes and says he's got me a gift from that trip.. what does that mean? :/ and how do i tell him i don't want it?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 My guess is he bought it out of guilt or something like that, but it's hard to say. He could have just thought it was something you'd like. Just because he broke it off doesn't mean he has no feelings for you anymore, they just aren't the same as they once were.
It might have also been a peace offering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I kinda don't get it.. why would he buy a gift to someone's done with.. What does on in the male mind? I personally would never buy something for an ex.. that's precisely why he's an ex..
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 January 2011):
Say, "Thanks, but no thanks."
It means he bought you a gift. Nothing more. He probably doesn't know what to do with it, and since it was meant for you, he's giving it to you (or at least trying to). If you don't want it, then tell him.
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