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My ex bf stole my car and rolled it! So why do I still care for him??

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Question - (9 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think I still love my ex, may sound easy... just get him back, but when i was asleep he stole my car keys whilst drunk, took it with out me knowing and rolled it 4 times. I lost over 4 grand and he got hardly any punishment. I know I should hate him but I don't and I think about him every day and compare new boyfriends to him !!! It's completely taking over my life but I love him. What the hell do I do ???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010):

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thanks guys thats quite handy coz iv been sein other boys since n i just compare them to him and there gonna b him so i should just be alone most probably x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010):

How about giving yourself some 'love' ??? This worm stole your car, wrecked it and did nothing to repay you?? Being drunk at the time is not a "pass" for his behavior,, it just shows he's a drunk idiot instead of a sober idiot.

You are never going to change a "bad boy". They just keep breaking your "stuff" till you have absolutely nothing left, physical or emotional.

Expect better for yourself, want better for yourself. You're worth more than that and when you believe that, heart/mind/soul.. you will find a "good guy".

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

Good question. I guess the problem is you loved him, and didn't see him doing that. To solve it, focus on your own life and what want from it, and maybe stop seeing other guys while you get your feelings in order, even if it takes a while

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