A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy in one of my classes. When I first saw him at the beginning of the semester I thought he was really cute and had a great personality. A few weeks ago I was not going to be in class so I asked him if I gave him my number can he let me know if I miss anything. He said yeah sure. That day we got to know each other more through text messaging. Then another day when I was at school, I was leaving early and he asked me where I was going and I told him I was sick. 5 minute later I get a text about how he hopes I feel better and so on. We have talked a lot through text messaging. With the way he acts and what he says he really seems to like me. Normally I don't jump to conclusions but the signs are all there. The problem is twice he mentioned his "girl". He said he only gets to see her on the weekends. He also wants me to go to dinner with him next week. I want to go because it could just be friends but I don't know. Anyone have any advice for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): He has a child, I think thats quite clear and he's hinting at you. If you don't mind the baggage he has then go, personally at our ages I wouldn't want to date a man who had a child.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (28 October 2007):
 My advice is to just follow his lead.
His "girl" could be little more than just a casual aquaintance.
It may be that it is just too inconvenient a relationship for him so he may be looking to find someone else.
I would just go on as though there is no one else and see where it goes. I am reasonably sure he will eventually tel you about this other person and you never know, he could be the one for you. I sincerly hope things go well for you. Doc
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