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male
age
36-40,
*ustaGuy
writes:Hey all,Its been 3 weeks since I broke up with my ex. She is home for the summer for another month until she returns. She broke it off the day before she went home, totally out of the blue - really cold and blunt almost to the point of being selfish and not caring about how i felt. It really hurts to think that the past few months we have been together were all just a waste. She said she still loved me and all what was before was genuine. It was her first serious relationship and I think at times that phased her a little, but she initiated a lot of the romantic stuff - you know presents etc. I know her father didnt approve and she said she had a long conversation with him the night before.She said she needed space and it was'nt worth waiting! ???? She said there is no one else and i do belive her. We kissed at the airport too last thing which confuses me more!I really want to know how she is! Should i contact her? Perhaps not a phonecall, i dont want to put her on the spot, maybe a text or somthing? Or play it cool and take the stance 'girls want most what then cant have'?As i said she is coming back in a month so i'm stuck as to what to do. I'm worried if i jus sit and wait she'll think i'll have lost interest and moved on and i'll lose the chance of maybe picking up where we left off. any advice or thoughts would be welcome.........
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I wouldn't contact her. As harsh as it sounds you need to move on and try to forget her. She ended things with you, rather harshly by the sound of it and she did say not to wait around.
I would wait until she gets back and see how she reacts around you. And take things from there.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I wouldn't contact her. The ball is in her court since she broke it off with you. I'd go out with friends this next month and try to have some fun. She may have broken things off to please her father and will be interested in resuming your relationship when she returns. What you need to think about is whether this the kind of treatment you deserve and whether you just might want to try and move on and find someone who values your feelings above anyone else's.
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