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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:A month ago, me and my bf broke up because of some stupid argument. We were going to get back and he told me that he wil tel me wen his feelings get back. At that time he blocked me on a site for 2 days n I gave him the space he needed. He wouldn't text me but when he saw me face to face he would stop talking to his friends and instead turn and say hi to me. So I asked him to unblok me on the site and yes he did that.finally his feelings were coming back, I could see them but yesterday I could not see him, some of his frends who are gurls asked him to go with them but he also refused because he had assignmnts to do. I saw him later and at the place where he was doing his work he was with his frend, a guy and the girls who asked him to go with them werr also there, so when I went he was not there he went to the washroom and I see the other girl sitting next to his bag and her purse was also there. So I got jealous and left. Later I ask his friend who is a guy if the girl left, he said no they went out for a smoke then I contacted him and told him I knw u r not doing ur work u r out, n then he starts blaming me that I'm spying on him so first I lied that I went down n ddnt see him because I ddnt want his friend to get in trouble for telling me. Then I go to him tel him the truth truth he gets angry because he thinks I dont trust him I told him I trust you but it was jst because I was jealous, he still doesn't get it.he tells me he didn't sit on the sofa with the girl and instead on the chair and tels his friend to tel me the truth n yes it was true. If he didn't care about what I think? Y dd he ask his friend to tel me werr he sat? He starts getin angry I leave and again he blocks me on whatsapp. When I texted him he tels me that he was being patient and that I should fuk of n shut up. My bf is a really angry person andd his family and frends all know that. So his friend advised me to text him today and remind him of all good times we had and tel him it was a good relationship n stuff. So I texted him he ddnt reply and now his friend told me that whenever I see him face to face I should ignore him. And this wil help him realise that he loves me and so he will start talking to me and come back to me. I'm feeling really hurt and I can't sleep and keep on crying the whole time. Can you please advise me on what to do? We both love each other but I duno y he is acting like that. How can I get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012): Do u think this will help? I saw him now he said hi but I just ignored and maybe its working wt do u think?
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