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writes:I've been dating my b/f for almost two years, but we had just made it official 7 months ago. He's a chick magnet, this I know. I fell in love with him the first time I ever saw him. He treats me great, but, to me, there is one problem. He LOVES attention. No matter where we are, it always seems that he loves attention from other girls. He don't ignore me at all, it's just I get jealous no matter what the girl looks like or what is said. I know how some girls think and that's how guys give them attention, girls like to flirt. I don't want some girl getting the wrong idea about my b/f's attention towards them. He's always been this way, I don't want to change him, I just want to quit getting so damn jealous all the time. I love him so much and I know it's not really him, it's me. I guess I'm insecure because he's so sexy and he could have anyone. what should I do? If I keep getting so jealous and being insecure, I may lose him and that's what I fear the most.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2005): Wow I am in the exact same position. My man is an absolute babe and could have anyone he wanted. I am damn proud that its me he is with, considering that I'm just average in the looks department. But I get jealous too and unfortunately he likes the attention too. But as he says to me yes I like the attention but you are the one I want to be with. Yes I could have anyone I wanted but I want you and only you. I know this is true but I still can't help but feel jealous. Thank god my partner is very understanding. The other horrible factor is he is in a job where he is dealing with receptionists/shop assistants all the time. Since this job the attention has heightened. At least once a fortnight he is asked out or they ask for his number. The only advice I can give you is just concentrate on the fact that he is with you. Thats what I am doing. Everytime I get feelings on being jealous I think of that and throw myself at him, so to speak, and get lots of cuddles/kisses etc. There is no other way to deal with it. You just need to control these feelings.
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reader, missdee +, writes (21 September 2005):
Relax, and take your rightful place beside him. He is your man. The girls may look and flirt and wish they could have him but at the end of the day he is still with you. Be proud you have such a good-looking man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): Honey, it's not you... it's HIM. He shouldn't be flirting with other girls and enjoying that attention from them while he has you at his side. My best friend has the same kind of boyfriend, and he didn't seem like the kind to cheat... he just seemed flirty and he "couldn't help it that girls liked him" but he swore he didn't want anyone but her. Well, turns out he was sleeping with another girl that he worked with and was trying to get another girl at his work to do the same. It might seem like your boyfriend doesn't have any intention of cheating but he probably would. And even if he doesn't, he clearly doesn't have enough respect for you to keep the flirting down a bit. You can do better... and I hope you do....
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