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anonymous
writes:My brother in law won't quit calling me texting me and facebooking me. We almost had sex one time and my sister walked in, no I don't want anything to do with him, but he woint leave me alone. I haven't answered anything from him, because I wouldn't want my sister to some how findout we are talking, which we aren't! I just don't know what to do?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Changing a phone number and blocking someone from facebook is pretty easy to do and to figure out. Are you really here because you want to repair your relationship with your sister?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 June 2010):
Ah. That's pretty awful really. Well, I think then that the only thing you can do is to ignore him. Respond to none of his texts, emails, calls, cut him from facebook and anything else that he can use to get to you. Just cut him out of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe knows what we did and he isn't with my sister anymore, I'm over 18 hours away from both of them and my sister isn't speaking to me right now.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Better yet, give your phone to your sister and let her handle the next text. I like that idea better.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 June 2010):
Are you serious? Is it that difficult for you to figure out?
Block him on FB, block his number on your phone. Or change your number if that's too hard for you to figure out, and delete your FB account if you can't figure that out either. So easy. So so easy. Print out the list of his attempts to contact you and give them to your sister.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Assuming that this is a follow up to the prior post.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/almost-had-sex-with-my-brother-in-law.html
What I said before still stands. You have to absolutely cut off all contact with him. If you have to change your cell phone #, go do it today. Close your facebook account. You need some time out to get your life together your real friends will understand. Quite frankly if you could take a long vacation or get a summer job hundreds of miles away, that would be ideal.
You want very much to undo the prior damage. This is how you do it. He is shaping up to be a real rat. Don't you be the one to give him the opportunity to hurt your sister again. Apparently he hasn't learned his lesson.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 June 2010):
 It's raining cats and trolls where's my umbrella?
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (16 June 2010):
I had advice... but CaringGuy and Q have said all that needs to be said.
Good luck, OP.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 June 2010):
If you almost had sex one time, then there must be some interest. I think you need to tell your sister about this now and show her the texts and such. She needs to know her husband is trying his luck. Just don't tell her that you almost had sex..
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