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writes:I used to have a male friend who i was very close to. Even though we dated for a short time we still managed to stay friends, then for a few months we didnt see each other.Then one time a group of us went camping including him and my older sister, they ended up getting together and althought they were together for a few months she ended it with him in november.Then new years i found out he had invited my two best (girl) friends to a party in his house, when they mentioned they were bringing me he told them the party was off but then changed his mind and said he was having a party but i wasnt allowed. since then hes invited them to every party but made it absolutely clear im not invited.his reasons being that im no fun when im drunk although its usually him people get annoyed at.hes also said stuff about my sister to my friends behind her and my back.am i right to be annoyed at him? and i am overreacting to be annoyed at my friends for still going to his parties and blowing me off to do so?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 June 2010):
I must admit that he rather stabbed you in the back. But this is something you just need to accept. If he doesn't want you there, he just doesn't. It's most likely there are issues between him and your sister that he doesn't want to be reminded of. As for your friends, you can't make them pick and choose who they see. It's not right to put them in the middle of a feud. You just have to be brave, suck it all in and move on. Don't start some war over this, or you'll lose your friends. Yes, it would be nice if they didn't go, but this isn't their feud. Accept it, and move on.
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