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writes: im so pissed off that my boyfriend's family hates me we did get on, now i can't even bring myself to even go to his house or even phone his house phone!!!! wot can i do???? i am only in my middle teens but i know that this boy is the one for me, i am so in love with him. i can't bring myself to tell him that i can't go on with his family being the way that they are with me! its not all of his family jsut his mother and 1 or 2 of his siblings!!! please help me xxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, mystify +, writes (9 March 2006):
 i used to have a relationship like this, all i can say is , phone him , go round and hold your head high.
it dosent matter what theythink , you are there for your boyfriend,and unless they are outright rude to you id just be pleasant to them and concentrate on him
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (8 March 2006):
 It is not his family you are dating and so you need to avoid them or grow a thick skin.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (8 March 2006):
 Hey chill, I know you've probably heard this before.. But when I was mid teens I met this guy who I totally loved.. I beleived we were made for each other and would get married and have babies and have such an exciting life, Thats what your HORMONES do to you!
Then he dumped me for a prettier girl (although she wasn't prettier) and I met another guy who I fell in 'love' with. I'm not trying to patronise you but people don't give advice for nothing. When they tell you that you are still young and are likely to fall out of love with this guy and then in love with another one, it is because everyone knows that this happens as teenagers.
Hey if his family don't like you and you can't stand it then don't ring his house phone and don't go round there. There's no point upsetting yourself. Only meet up with him outside and 'hang out' with him elsewhere. Tell him to get in contact with you rather then you getting in contact with him. That way you can just have fun without the pressures of his family.
If he doesn't contact you or come to see you, well it has to be said hun, at least then you'll know where you stand, and you'll be able to move on.. If he does contact you and come to see then GREAT, result!!
Good luck sweetie, and keep us updated on your situation x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): can't really help until i know why she don't like you.
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